give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. dont believe all you hear, spent all you have or sleep all you want. when you say "i love you" mean it. when you say "im sorry" look the person in the eye. be engaged at least six months before you get married. never laugh at anyones dreams. people who dont have dreams dont have much. love deeply and passionately. you may get hurt but its the only way to live life completely. in disagreements, fight fairly. dont judge people by their relatives. talk slowly but think quickly. remember that great love and great achievements involve great risks. say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. dont let a little dispute injure a great friendship. when you realize youve made a mistake, take immediate action to correct it. smile when you pick up the phone, the caller will hear it in you voice. spend some time alone. open you arms to change but dont let go of values. remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. read more book and watch less television. in disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. dont bring up the past. share you knowledge. pray theres immeasurable power in it. never interrupt when you are being flattered. mind your own business. remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck. learn the rules, then break some. judge you success by what you had to give up in order to get it.